“The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel” is a film about British pensioners who decide to move to Indian for a better life; each character has his/her own reason for going.  Once there, some see all the differences in architecture, lifestyle, food and colors as fascinating and exquisite. On the other hand a couple folks see nothing positive; they complain that it smells, it is noisy and the food is strange.  Most movie goers will just enjoy the excellent cast which includes Dame Judy Dench and Maggie Smith in this charming film. However, for those interested in cultural nuances, the film is a treasure.

In the film one of the characters dies and his friend decides a traditional India ritual should be followed.  He is cremated on a fire that is lit at dawn and burns all day; then his ashes are spread in a peace place.  More subtle were the colors worn by the mourners, whites and yellows.  White is customarily worn for funeral in some countries including India. 

In Subtle Differences, Big Faux Pas, one section highlights traditions related to the beginning and end of life.  The death of a family member is a particularly difficult time for an individual.  Being able to comfort and support them is appreciated.  This is not the time for a Faux Pas. 

What are the customs and traditions in your culture?